I can only guess where your minds are after reading this title – somewhere between interested and not in a million years, disgust palpable, at the very next exit – two extremes not at all unique to the subject at hand. There’s something very taboo about a crimson dick.
For whatever reason, there has been a large degree of social stigma affiliated with something naturally occurring within our bodies as women. Periods are perceived to be a “no sex zone”, off limits, do not pass go, exit stage right moment on a month to month basis for four to six days, 12 months out of the year (the schedule varies for those who are irregular or on contraceptives intended to stop or regulate monthly cycles).
I’ve found that not only am I more sensitive and more aroused at this time, but around day three or four of my cycle, the amount of blood down there is very minimal, especially when excited. Use a shower as your lovemaking setting of choice to help with the clean up efforts post-coitus. The positions you choose can also be a help to alleviate the presence of your period during sex. I’ve found that missionary is easiest because the level of depth can be controlled a lot better. Doggystyle and other positions where depth reigns truest should be avoided at the start of the period but can be worked in as the flow becomes lighter later on in the cycle.
If blood doesn’t bother you much, by all means, let it go, let it flow.
My a-ha moment with how I felt about period sex led me to wondering how others outside of me viewed period sex. I expected to hear a lot more hell no’s but was pleasantly surprised at the thoughts that unfolded…
“I have no issue having sex with a woman on her period, I’ve done it a lot actually. From my experience, my woman is extremely horny during that time anyway, and as a man who loves sex, who am I to deny her? It’s not nearly as bad as people imagine it to be.” – Jason R.
“I have before. And it was really good. However, I was also drunk. But I can’t say I’m against it. The mindset usually is period means ‘no sex’. Learning exactly what a period is actually helped me to appreciate a woman’s body.” – Stephen G.
“Period sex isn’t bad. If you’re horny, you’re horny. Put a towel down and get it to it. It’s just a confirmation that I’m not pregnant. It works best in relationship though. When you’re in a relationship you’ve kinda already passed all the boundaries of trying to be cute all the time. Plus, sometimes I get super horny on my period and just want it. So who would turn down free sex especially when it helps with my cramps and my mood? Win win.” – Shantell H.
“I think period sex is fine. I don’t really see a big deal with it. But personally, I wouldn’t do it. I’m self conscious enough as it is and I’m not ready for it.” – Anna P.
“I can’t see myself having sex on a period…I like foreplay too much maybe more than sex itself and not to be able to get it because Mother Nature wants to interfere, sex isn’t as enjoyable for me if no foreplay is involved.” – Shannon C.
“I’m cool with it. I haven’t done it often, but it was always a good experience when it happened. I’ve never thought that a period was something that should prevent you from sharing your love. It’s human, it’s womanly, it’s real.” – Jaden A.
“Period sex is a part of life for all but some people indulge. I’ve indulged before. I’ve had protected and unprotected sex with a woman on her cycle but during the last day and maybe the first. It’s not something I aim to do, but it’s definitely something I’m conscious of.” – Neilson B.
How do you feel about period sex? Share with me below!